On the Road to the Minimal Master Closet

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Before we purged the master bedroom closet.

By Renée

I’ve read a number of books on minimalism. One of the reasons I wanted to start this blog was to document the process instead of writing from a place of fait accompli. I felt so many of these books are being written so long after the actual house-wide purge that it’s hard for the authors to remember life as it was. When we started this experiment we were drowning in stuff and looking for a way out. Is minimalism going to be the answer? Probably. Will it be as easy as they make it out to be? Absolutely not!

Over time, I have noticed our attitudes and patterns changing. On of our latest successes was the master bedroom closet. We started on one side of our non-walk-in closet and took everything out. We decided to begin with Dave’s message tees. You can read his post below. Neither of us have a gigantic wardrobe, so it wasn’t the task it could have been. I’ve been slowly losing weight and have had to replace my wardrobe a couple of times in the last six years. It’s not a capsule by any means but it’s not vast either. By taking things out, it caused us to really look at stuff. Anything I hadn’t warn in six months I tried on to see if it even fit anymore. I have a strict policy that once something is too big I get rid of it. It’s too easy for me to gain weight when I have larger sizes readily available in the closet.

As I pulled things out I asked myself two questions. First, when was the last time I wore this? Second, why? I got rid of anything where the answer was something like, “I don’t really like it that much,” or “It’s not super flattering so I avoid wearing it.” This is prime real estate and stuff I don’t ever really wear doesn’t get to suck up room. At the end of the “cold” season I will purge again. We live in Southern California, I won’t insult anyone by calling it winter.

One of the major issues that Dave and I disagree on is the sentimental stuff. My advice is remove that stuff and put it in another room if you can. We got sidetracked for a solid 30 minutes on a box marked “Wedding Stuff” and I felt it hampered our momentum. Dave thought it was a nice stroll down memory lane in an otherwise boring project. Do what’s best for you. Also, depending on the size of your closet this may take two or three sessions. If you have clothes spread around the house, like in your guest room or office closet, you may want to get it all in one place so you can really see what you have. If you have five black dresses that are similar, you need to see them all at one time in order to decide what to keep and what it let go.

In the end we purged 60 items total. Yes, I actually counted as we went, on  a piece of paper on a clipboard no less. When the year is over I want to really understand where we came from so I can tell you if it was worth it.

I have to say that it has been really nice not needing to practically use a crow bar to get clothes out of the right side of our closet. Nothing is getting wrinkled anymore either.

Well, on to the next project.

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After the purge our clothes have room to hang and not be wrinkled.

You Have to Start Somewhere

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By Renée

I’ve been reading books on decluttering and minimalism trying to find the perfect way to get my house cleared out and am dealing with some serious analysis paralysis. As I looked around our 1300 square-foot, three bedroom house I starting asking myself what needs to go? Of course, my mind immediately flew to the master bedroom closet shelf where my almost 21-year-old wedding dress resides. I felt my stomach clench and then I realized that this was not the place to start but rather the place to end. If I have learned one thing in my reading it’s that you start with something easy. You need to build momentum so that you will stay energized and make it to the finish line.

Going from room to room and looking over what we have I noticed that there are three layers of stuff in our house. The first layer is what I call The Eyesore Layer. It’s the clutter that makes our house look like a mess and makes me say bad words and get angry. The second layer is The Excessive Layer. These items are put away and not a mess but we have too many of them. Books, clothes, DVDs, CDs and dishes make up this layer. The third layer is two categories that we have a similar motivation for keeping, The Emotional Layer and The Expensive Layer. Gifts and keepsakes added to things like watches we don’t wear or kitchen appliances we spent a lot of money but didn’t use after a month.

We’re going to start with the first layer and work our way down. We’re beginning with what my husband calls the junk room. It’s our third bedroom and was supposed to be a craft room for me but then really turned into a dumping ground for anything that we didn’t have a place for. I’m setting a 15 minute timer for today and diving in.